I think it’s safe to write her name since it was 22 years ago. But she was the first girl I “legitimately” had sex with. She was 19 and I was 16. She was an extra at a popular soap opera and I basically lucked out by giving her a ride and then doing her that same night back at my parents place. Unfortunately, I only did her once but I was scared she would find out my real age (I told her I was older) but I remember that night vividly.. I remember how she just fell asleep after I fucked her from behind and came over her ass.. if only I could do it again!

One of the reasons I created the blog was to write down as many of my experiences as possible as memories tend to fade. So I will try to put down every single woman I’ve ever been with in some sexual way or another. It’s a long project, maybe years? but at the end I will have a nice diary to read when I get old and no longer can get it up :)

So I wanted to list my first ever sexual experience. And no there wasn’t any intercourse involved, just a bit of oral but she is the first girl I ever kissed.  I was 11 yo and remember that moment like it was yesterday.. what’s interesting is that I don’t remember her face too well, what I remember are my feelings at that time.

Her name was Adelxxx and she was Spanish if I’m not mistaken.. so she will be #1 on my very long list to come (should be over 1000).

Well sort of.. at least I haven’t been looking for new women at all this month. I am dating enough girls at the moment so there is really no need. And besides, below is what I first saw this morning when I woke up so this man is happy and satisfied for the time being :)

My gf's tit that slipped out of her tank top

If there is one woman in this world I would give a finger to fuck would be this woman.. She is a Goddess!

I have a number of women I can have sex at this moment. After a good 2009, I not only accumulated sex partners but ongoing casual relationships that keep me busy.  So off the top of my head,  starting with my out of my city lovers.. I am trying to stay anonymous so people won’t find me posting about them, thus the vagueness.

South East – We’ll call her “R”. I know when I visit I can sleep with her if she is single and maybe even “D”.

North- I have “K” there and we’ve been each other’s lover for a long time. I think almost 9-10 years now.

South (where I live)

  1. An
  2. Kt
  3. Mt
  4. Hl
  5. Ml

Other less reliable ones

  1. Cb in Ox
  2. Kt in Oc

So I guess for now I have 5 reliable girls I can call up anytime near me and some others  around too. And I didn’t even count  some porn girls and others whom I could actually try getting in touch with. The trick is keeping all the current girls happy so when I get back I will love them all! Come to think about it, I have enough pussy already to last me a lifetime and anything beyond what I have is really icing on the cake. I am one lucky fucker indeed..

I arrived in China couple of days ago on a business trip and I wasn’t planning to do anything while here.  I finished up 2009 with about 51 new girls of which I still do about half a dozen regularly. So I figured I would use this 2 week trip to “take a breather” if you will from fucking. But I did end up checking the CL in the city that I am in and I found this woman that apparently wants a man to take erotic pictures with her. Not sure if it’s a porn shoot or what but from what I know it is uber ilegal in China. But I was curious and sent in couple of my pics and she replied. However, she turned me down because I do not live in the city which was a pre-requisite for her.

What would have been interesting is what if she had said yes. What would I have done.. would I have risked meeting this woman to do pictures just so that I could fuck her? or would my common sense have prevailed? I am glad she said no, that way I don’t have to make the decission. But it does put into perspective how crazy I am to get some new pussy.. I think I would have said no anyway (I think)..

The Ad:

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Happy New Year! I find myself traveling overseas for the next few days and I think I will have time to write on the blog about my thoughts on sex. The topic that has been on my mind for the last few years is why is it that I was so sexually driven for so long. I’ve been diagnosed by a psychologist (an expensive I might add) as an sex addict but at the same time I feel like I am just horny like any other man. The difference is that I was able to figure out ways to have a lot of sex with a lot of women. So I think this is something to think about as there should be a balance somewhere in between. On one hand, what man would not screw around with as many women as possible and on the other how did I get to have more sex partners than 99.9% of men? (rough estimate but I think it’s safe to say that less than 1 out of 1000 men have had as many partners as I have.  My psychologist told me he had never encountered anyone like me, so that’s safe to say).

Going back in time to my childhood, I remember always being fascinated by girls. And what buy isn’t really? but some time in my early teens I started to get these ideas of being with lots of girls. I started counting the girls I had kissed and from there it just grew. In my mind it almost seemed as if the more girls I would be with, the more pleasure I would get. So at around 15-16 I came up with a realistic goal of kissing 100 girls. Innocent idea and typical of an male adolescent. But where I started to deviate from the norm is probably my visits to prostitutes at that age. I had the means, the car, the money and the time to do it. So I was ahead of my peers in the hooker count. But I am pretty sure some of the guys I knew would be up there with me if I had the chance. So still, nothing particularly off.

Then came adulthood. I would still do hookers just for the thrill of it more than anything else but I also started to have regular sex partners and girlfriends. I really enjoyed sex and one of my girlfriends even told me I was going to end up doing porn. How she was able to figure that out, I have no idea but there must have been something about me that she saw that gave her that impression. Then after my mid 20’s, I discovered swinging and that was really the beginning of my accumulation of partners. I started to have sex with a lot of women at swing parties and because these were as NSA encounters as they can get.  I probably did about 200-300 women that way.  That lifestyle led to my involvement in porn and then I went from swinging to having sex on video and getting paid for it 2-3 times a week with different women. And before I knew it, I accumulated about 1000 sexual partners because of the time I was involved in porn and swinging. But even after quitting porn and swinging, I still manage to rack up very high numbers by any standards.  Somehow, I figured out a way to do this every efficiently online and last year I ended up doing about 50 women just doing what I do best.

So the question I ask myself is, am I a sex addict for being able to figure out how to have sex with lots of women?  I am able to find new partners every week if I wanted to just by posting and responding to some sex ads. For me, it is THAT easy. Men pay a fortune for that, ruin their marriages and relationships just to have casual sex. And I am in the position where I can do it without hurting anyone. Does that make me a real sex addict? I think I am just horny and clever enough to figure women out. I suppose I will answer this question in time when I put myself thru some kind of character tests. In the meantime, I know I can have sex with at least 50 different women this new year if I choose to. That’s 50 new experiences, lots of thrills, lots of women. And the alternative would be to be with 1 woman working on a romantic connection/relationship.  So I guess the question is what do I want more.. Sex or Love. Time will tell.